You Make The Call-Update

So, this whole opening gifts thing was really bothering me.
Ms. Manners and all the people on the wedding etiquette pages say you aren't supposed to use the gifts before the wedding. It doesn't say much about opening them, though. I'm not going to tell my friend, but it says if something bad happens, all gifts are to be returned. I don't know how you return two sets of plates and they aren't in the package. hee hee. I'm so mean.